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That depends a lot on your child, but it's probably safe to say that this is a good age to give a sleepover a try. Once she's comfortable with one-on-one sleepovers, she might have fun at a slumber party. You'll want to do your homework, of course: It's always a good idea to meet with the host's parents ahead of time (or talk with them on the phone) to make sure your child will feel safe and comfortable at her pal's house. Talking with the parents first also allows you to address any of your concerns, for instance, making sure there aren't any guns in the house and determining that the parents will use good judgment in offering age-appropriate activities to the kids, such as movies that aren't too terrifying.
If your child is ready for a night away from home, and she's eager to try it, then go for it. Just make sure she understands that she can come home at any point — all she has to do is call. (You'll want to stay at home or keep your cell-phone handy so she can reach you.) If she does call wanting to go home, tell her it's okay and reassure her that she can always try again. Or next time, you can send your pj-clad, sleeping-bag-toting child to a close buddy's home for a few hours of nighttime fun, chatting, and snacking. Around 9 p.m., you can pick her up, and then everyone can get some sleep
Answer any of your child's questions beforehand, and then help her get ready for the big occasion (don't forget to pack her stuffed animal or a flashlight for extra security). When you drop her off, explain that you'll pick her up after breakfast. Call your child around bedtime, if you think she might find that comforting. If that's likely to trigger tears or make her anxious, let her decide whether or not she wants to talk with you before she goes to sleep. Chances are, she'll be having so much fun with her friends that she'll scamper happily off to bed...but not necessarily off to sleep!